Remember the fat girl that so wanted to be skinny. Well, here you are and you will do ANYTHING to stay there. I have that feeling to the extreme. For 7 months after my surgery, I couldn't eat solid food. Which I know was my trigger, I had adhesions that weren't allowing food past my stoma and all I did was vomit. I went from 260 pounds to 103. I looked like a skeleton and I stopped letting family and friends take pictures of me. I looked like a walking anorexic billboard. But, guess what, I was a size 2 and I loved it! Deep down inside that fat girl was happy to be a size 2. Unhealthy as it was, with every rib showing, and my liver enzymes climbing, I had to force myself to take that first bite after surgery.
The scale began to climb 106, then 110 and now I am 114. And I find myself panicking! Absolutely horrified that they will continue to climb. My goal weight was 130, I am 5' 4". I am in therapy for this, rest assured. And I encourage anyone else that is battling this to find a therapist that specializes in eating disorders.
But, if you can relate to the heart stopping panic when you step on that scale, then you know the fear of regain. Our entire community deals with it, some differently than others, but we still are dealing with it. We have watched our idols in the community regain and hide it. We have seen others be honest and talk about theirs. But, if you're counting calories to the point of severe restriction or your not eating to maintain, please see a professional. I found my personal life spiraling out of control, there were two things I could control: One was my weight and the other was my house......you can eat off the floors!
According to this study amongst Bariatric patients conducted by: Rosenberger PH, Henderson KE, Grilo CM. Department of Epidemiology & Public Health, Yale University School of Medicine, New Haven, CT 06519, USA.:
And according to Eating Disorder Review the risk of suicide increases in Bariatric Surgery patients:
Truth is that I am taking this one day at a time. I don't have the answers to this question. I am not an expert, but I know what I feel and I feel fear. The fear of being fat again is real. And I can't ignore it or bury it in my subconscious. It needs to be talked about and discussed.